My experience to the loving-kindness exercise was very
pleasant. I was not able to stay focused on what the women wanted me to do the
entire time, but I think the background noise of waves kept me in a state of
calm even when my mind wondered. For me the hardest part about these exercises
is staying focused, my mind so easily wonders. When she asked me in the
beginning to pick a person whom I loved and held with tenderness and I thought
to myself, “no one”, and I think that made me a little panicky at first. I
think touch, as a way to express love, is not prevalent in my family what so
ever. No one hugs in my family or anything like that and I think that threw me
off. After I got through the first couple minutes I was able to relax my mind
and follow the rest of the exercise. I would recommend this to certain people.
I’m not sure it is for everyone, but there are specific people in my life that
I’m sure would appreciate this exercise. Exercises like this I think could be
considered mentally working out your mind/brain. Doing these kinds of exercises
can give me the ability to control my thoughts and emotions, and develop a
level of awareness that can help me help others in their time of need. My mind
seems to always be on the run, and these workouts could help me control my
thoughts; allowing me to be still and then organized.
I have ADHD so I can totally understand your difficulties paying attention to the recording. Though for me for some reason following someone’s voice and visualizing something isn’t as bad as just trying to focus on something by myself. Unless I’m tired, then my brain is all over the place no matter what I’m trying to focus on. If you work on it and practice then it becomes easier with time. I’ve been doing some meditative exercises and it is a challenge but I’ve improved. It can really do wonders for your concentration actually. Also I think when the exercise mentions holding someone with tenderness I think it can mean mentally, just holding them in a loving place in your mind. Maybe it might help to think of it that way. I encourage you to keep up with exercises like these to improve your memory, I intend to do the same.
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